Never Enough: When Achievement Culture Becomes Toxic—and What We Can Do About It

Here’s the rub, and why Never Enough can tackle a relatively tangled issue while letting everyone walk away feeling pretty good: there is simply no exploration of the social structure that landed us here, no history of higher education or trace mention of Veblen and the rise of secondary education as acceptable conspicuous consumption for a leisure class breed under the auspices of American Exceptionalism and grounded in a puritanical faith that hard work begets wealth as a sign from Christian God that you are righteous. 

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Gentrification Is Inevitable and other lies

The book itself is conversational. Reviewing most of the quotes I pulled was uneventful; they don’t have much oomph excised from their textual home. If you liked hearing me ramble on about how I restarted my love affair with reading The New Yorker, you might dig the format of Gentrification: its pages give the reader space to stretch out and really bask in their own personal thoughts about what housing is, and should be. It is anecdote and suggestion, a personal story over coffee.

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Stay True

So many experiences cited here feel universal—the selfishness of early adulthood is apparent. The fact that you’re still a block of marble that must let events chisel away pieces of yourself until a finished you emerges. It is habitual to find yourself in the pages of a memoir, to parse and parallel your own past with the words. But something here–it was the Foucault quote, actually–made me pause. The palpable sadness, beyond the tepid wistfulness of age, shook me up. There was a longing for a set point in time—a specific and calcified time— that I’ve never known myself. It was directly after, “How to leave him alone without abandoning him?” that I finally looked at the back cover, almost idly, and caught words like “elegy” and “grief” before I looked away. Something is going to happen. Something bad.

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Having and Being Had

Monopoly was created as a tool to show children that absolute control of marketplaces—and things like landlords—are bad, actually. That pushing people out of the game and siphoning benefits toward the person who got lucky with the dice (or the person born into property, say) is fundamentally damaging to the whole of society. That rules of a game, as they represent our laws in society, can keep everyone at the table indefinitely, if we choose to make it so.

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I Want to Die but I Want to Eat Tteokbokki

I hated being a lawyer, and I was never very skilled at it, but that thought of someone saying to me, “I thought you were supposed to be a lawyer” in response to legal questions I answered partially or not at all truly terrified me. It is why I always tried to position myself as an outsider: A person who wanted to be in graduate school for creative writing during law school; a person who was only running long distances to get better at rowing; someone writing book reviews just to help me remember what I’ve read. No, I was just too scared to admit that I was running to run, or writing to be read. That fear, knowing it exists in other people?

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Girlhood

Each essay was adapted from a disparate source, not written together: concepts overlap, are restated; references are reused, the poignancy decohering as singular impact turns staccato. The only concern is one of desire—keep pushing, and the path may look the same. Rest a while, and find an unending desire to crest the next rise. Put aside Girlhood for a day or a week and it allow more breath for each essay to wash and soak and move at its own pace, but good luck to you. The writing is there. It will find its way to your hand. You’ll be drawn back, till deed is done.

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Uncanny Valley

The underpaid office worker bildungsroman hits too close to home for me. It probably strikes the majority of my age demographic. Any book burnished by The New Yorker’s indelible house style has space in my heart. Whatever the case, I went into Uncanny Valley thinking it was a book for me, and as I read each page they proved that assumption, 200 times over:

I was perhaps still afflicted by the shortsightedness of someone whose skill set was neither unique nor in high demand. A sense of my own disposability had been ingrained since working in the publishing industry, and quitting without a plan was unfathomable. Every month since graduation was accounted for on my resume. Sabbaticals, for anyone other than a college professor, were a novel concept, and one I could not trust.

When it moved away from the intensely relatable and started branching wide in what felt like an attempt to carve out a cultural moment writ large, it lost the unique voice in favor of demotivational poster clichés:

Nobody was guaranteed any future, I knew. But for those who seemed to be emerging from the wreckage victorious--namely, those of us who had secured a place in an industry that had steamrolled its way to relevance—the meritocracy narrative was a cover for lack of structural analysis. It smoothed things out. It was flattering, and exculpatory, and painful for some people to part with.

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Sandworm: A New Era of Cyberwar and the Hunt for the Kremlin's Most Dangerous Hackers

Based on past years of detective work, CrowdStrike tied Fancy Bear to the Russian military intelligence agency known as th GRU. Cozy Bear, it would later be revealed, worked within Russia’s SVR foreign intelligence agency.(The two “bear” names derived from CrowdStrike’s system of labeling hacker teams with different animals based on their country of origin--bears for Russia, pandas for China, tigers for India, and so on.)

These are cool little facts that add depth to general interest readers. Cybersecurity people would know this naming convention, but I definitely didn’t. It’s a nice peek behind the curtain, and something I appreciate being explained; a lot of books that focus only on their core demographic might elide this part to make sure they don’t bore or insult their intended audience.

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David DinaburgTech, Non-Fiction
Very Important People: Status and Beauty in the Global Party Circuit

Much like you need to be “above 5’9” and under 6 feet” to be considered a model, you need to know what words will be used and how in each specific frame of reference. But VIP never moves too fast, or assumes you come into the pages knowing exactly what a high-end club looks, sounds, or feels like. The book never punishes you for being outside, looking in: in fact, it is presented from the liminal space between inside and outside the scene. As both erstwhile model and active sociologist, the author is in the field, participating without disrupting; an important facet of why the book works as well as it does. As reader, you never feel left outside the velvet ropes so the author can flex their intellectual fortitude.

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American Kingpin: The Epic Hunt for the Criminal Mastermind Behind the Silk Road

A series of general mistakes by the Silk Road guy and on-the-ground investigative labor—rather than literature-inflected hamartia or celestial kismet—brought down “the amazon.com of drugs.” The scene where the Silk Road guy is telling the police all about Silk Road, and that his roommates know him by another name, and gives them an email address @tor.com, and they’re just like, “Oh, okay, have a good day, citizen” had me yelling.

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David Dinaburg